There have been plenty of times that I’ve felt like I need to give up. Seriously doubting my expectations.
I have never been the one to just quit what I’ve started. Once my mind is made up I go for it. Giving up is never an option for me unless I HAVE to.
It’s hard to ignore negativity when you start something. It doesn’t always have to be directed towards you exactly but just the fact that it’s negative can kill your whole mood. Positivity is easier said than done. When you’re mind starts to wander away from the task at hand there goes your positivity along with it.
How to remain focused
Focusing can be hard for some because a lot of us can get really busy.
Some of us take on way more than we should and we lose track of the main focus.
If you work from social media like I am it can be quite difficult. People tend to say things on social media that they wouldn’t say personally. That can be a real mood killer (there goes your positive attitude) that you’ve been trying so hard to keep. Good thing about working from home all you have to do is log off. Simple.
The thing is people are going to say what they want regardless of how it’s going to make you feel. This is your first test: So let’s say you’re advertising or marketing a product. You’re telling everyone how wonderful it is and how much it’s changed your life and so on. Then someone says I wish people would stop sharing all this crap about them. Not everyone cares.
Okay so before you let that get to you remember the reason behind what you’re doing.
Remember that this person is not the only one who sees your stuff so even if you have repetition in some of the things you post this person is NOT the only one to see.
You’re doing what you love and you want to share it with the world! I like to think that if someone isn’t talking about you then you’re not doing it right.
For some reason I get satisfaction I feel as though I’m getting feedback and that motivates me to keep going.
Focus on all the things you’ve accomplished already. Looking back on how far you come should motivate you to keep moving, keep trying, never give up!
They say you should never say never, but in this circumstance NEVER give up!
Giving up what you love gives all the negativity, you’ve been trying to avoid, satisfaction.
Focus. Strive. Succeed.
Don’t follow the crowd
There are so many rules in life that we tend to stay inside the box. We tend to look at others and envy them.
I don’t like the word envy because it’s a sin.
When we are given an opportunity take it because it could possibly mean changing your life for the better. Don’t look at someone else’s success and wish it were your own because you don’t know where that person started to get where they are now.
Don’t look at someone else’s downfall and expect a come up because you don’t know what that person went through or is going through.
In order to be successful, you must follow the beat to your own drum. In time people along the way will help you get where you’re trying to be.
I know they say you should be a leader not a follower but I don’t believe it to be 100% accurate because you must follow in order to learn. Once you find a way comfortable enough for you that’s when you start leading and helping others that are looking for someone to follow so they can end up leading their own way.
I hope that made sense.
Be an example.
Lead by faith not by sight.
I’m coming to terms with why I started my journey. Each day I wake up and I see my wonderful husband and my two amazing boys. They are my true reason.
They keep me motivated and bring me all the joy and positivity I need.
Some days I definitely don’t feel like I’ve made any progress and I’ve come to the conclusion that it’s okay!
I know in the end my family is proud of me. I know in the end I’ve stepped out of my comfort zone and made an impact in someone’s life. I know by all my repetition someone is observing and seeing what I’m doing and maybe one day will decide to follow in my footsteps and make a change for their own family.
The fact that I know all these things just makes what I do a lot more fun and rewarding!
I wouldn’t have seen myself right now in this point in time with my own blog and my own business!!!
God works in mysterious ways.
When I couldn’t find happiness He gave me my family.
When I couldn’t find words He gave me my blog.
When I needed money He gave me my own business!
I’m very thankful and very appreciative for every opportunity God has given me. I am definitely looking forward to a better future for my family!
I had an inspiration and it started my journey: :The Start Of My Inspiration
My goal is that my husband won’t have to work ever again and that my family will be able to travel all over the world!
I am trying to make that happen.
Be all you can be, forget all limitations!
Focus on your main goal!!
Ignore the negativity or take it for what it is. Either way you’re doing your job!
Love what you do and Do it well!
Let success be in your future.